The Gathering Venue

04/25/2026

A + A 💍 🤍
intimate, intentional, and so in love.

there’s something about a civil ceremony that just hits different… no pressure, no performance, just two people choosing each other, fully and forever.

obsessed with love stories like this ✨
if you’re looking for a modern, heartfelt ceremony that actually feels like you, I got you.

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01/17/2026

For the lovers who choose intimacy over extravagance and meaning over excess.

This Valentine’s season, The Gathering is offering Valentine’s-inspired civil and micro wedding ceremonies set within a regal, romantic aesthetic, rich crimson tones, candlelit details, and editorial elegance designed to feel timeless, intimate, and deeply personal.

Perfect for:
• Civil weddings
• Elopements
• Micro weddings
• Vow renewals
• Valentine’s ceremonies

Whether your celebration is beautifully simple or quietly grand, we craft ceremonies that honor your love story with intention, reverence, and heart.

📍 Downtown Bakersfield, CA
📅 Booking now through February 16
🤍 Officiant-led, customized ceremonies

✨ Limited Valentine’s availability
📩 DM “VALENTINE” to receive pricing & availability







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12/29/2025

In the heart of downtown Bakersfield, surrounded by history, love, and intentional moments, The Riveras said yes to forever 🤍

What made their day so special wasn’t the size of the guest list, it was the intimacy, the laughter, the quiet tears, and the way their love filled the space. Proof that an intimate wedding ceremony in Bakersfield can be just as meaningful, romantic, and unforgettable as any grand celebration.

If you’re a Bakersfield bride dreaming of a small, heartfelt wedding, a downtown ceremony, or a space where your love story is truly the focus this is your sign.

Congratulations to the newlyweds, Mr. & Mrs. Rivera ✨
Your love is a beautiful beginning.

07/14/2024

06/29/2024

Happy First Wedding Anniversary Toñito & Yeni! 🎉✨

It feels like just yesterday that I had the honor of officiating your beautiful ceremony. As I reflect on this past year, I’m filled with gratitude for the opportunity to get to know you both beyond the wedding day and running into you guys often at Costco.

Your love and commitment to each other have been inspiring to witness. The way you support and cherish one another is a testament to the strength of your bond. It’s been a joy to see your journey together and excited for what more God has for you.

I feel truly blessed to have shared in the beginning of your life together as husband and wife. May your love continue to grow deeper with each passing year, and may you celebrate many more anniversaries filled with endless love.

Here’s to the wonderful memories you’ve made and the beautiful future that lies ahead. 🥂

With all my love and best wishes,

Aileen

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05/23/2024

One of my favorite things about micro weddings is the chance to write a personal note to the bride and groom, celebrating their special day, and giving them a small gift in collaboration with .medaesthetics to thank them for choosing us as their officiant and venue.

I wish we could keep offering this service in Bakersfield, but right now, our family needs us, and our daughters need our full attention. So, for now, we’ll hold onto these special moments and hope to bring these micro weddings back in the future.

In the meantime, if you’re looking for a wedding officiant, I’m still here, ready to take on clients and create ceremonies that reflect your unique love story, making your day just as you’ve dreamed. 🫶🏻