09/02/2026
Isn’t making it up as you go the whole equation? How can we know anything will be anything when you start? Yep, it will be bad. Yep, it will not be easy. Yep, it will be frustrating. And most certainly it will not look like anything close to resembling a finished product. Just because someone did something a certain way before you doesn’t mean that is how it has to be done for you. And you can study and educate yourself in any discipline, but until you get out there and get messy and into it you will never know how it plays. I tell my class a lot, in order to break the rules you have to know the rules really well. It isn’t something you get to arrive at immediately and declare a change in direction. What that means for me is there needs to be time put in. Plain and simple. Do the work. Make the mistakes. Don’t sit with the mistakes. Keep moving. That is the whole damn point in any of it. Just do the fu***ng work. And we are concerned with a curated life so much nowadays we don’t even start because there is fear of judgement, failure, or a whole myriad of other emotions that cripple the psyche. F**k the curation. The only people concerned about the curated anything don’t matter in your process anyway. We are people. It is messy. It is hard. That is the whole point.