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05/02/2015

That is amazingly sweet from the photo!

情侶的合照有很多方式，怎樣拍得浪漫又有趣？這裏 101 個情侶攝影貼士與建議，包括有多款姿勢、場景及道具，大家可以參考參考，非常實用！當然，道具來說，你要先有一個女友 / 男友喔 (哭)。

22/01/2015

Be a Great Man!

When searching for that special someone, it’s always good to have an image of what he should be like.

25/12/2014

12/10/2014

Life can be sweet and simple if someone is walking hand in hand with you in love. 11.11 is coming soon!

28/06/2014

06/05/2014

Arguments are often seen as a negative thing in relationships.

Very often people assume that once they start arguing, in some way it’s the beginning of the end. They think, “Oh we’ve tarnished the relationship already.”

Now let’s imagine you’re with your guy and you start arguing. Immediately that emotion comes in that says, “I need to win this argument.”

It might be pride or stubbornness. It might be a part of you that feels insecure. You may feel that if you don’t win then you’re not in the driver’s seat. So, you try and win the whole thing.

I want to make sure that we get you to a more mature place than that. By the way, I’ve been guilty of this myself, that’s why I know this topic so well.

When you feel yourself getting into that argument, remember:

There’s a difference between winning in the argument and winning in the relationship. I want to make sure you win in the relationship…

…because the argument is just the battle, the relationship is the war.

When you’re in that argument, there are two words I want you to remember:

“I understand.”

Sounds obvious, I know. Right?

The key to relationships is understanding.

When you get to that point of an argument, showing that you understand someone is the key.

Think about it this way: You might not agree with someone’s reaction to a situation, but you can acknowledge where the feeling came from that led to that reaction.

In that moment, you’re annoyed because you don’t feel like you should have been shouted at. You can disagree with my reaction to shout at you, but you can also understand and acknowledge that there was a feeling that prompted the reaction.

…because when we go on the attack that’s when we start doing serious damage to the relationship.

Show that you’re part of a team and that you want to help each other out. The quickest and easiest way to do that is to show that you understand him.

19/04/2014

Quick Quiz

You’re dating a guy you really, really like. You’ve been waiting for the moment when he asks you to be exclusive, but when the topic finally comes up he says, “I love spending time with you but I’m just not ready for a relationship.”

You’re crushed, but you don’t want to lose him.

Do you…

• Pretend you don’t care and agree to be casual, but still hold out hope that he’ll change his mind

• Give him an ultimatum – either he commits or you’re outta there

• Continue to see him and have fun, but make sure he knows you’re dating other people too

The correct answer is C, and I’ll explain why in just a moment…

Let’s look at the other answers first:

Option A is a recipe for disaster. By pretending that you don’t want a relationship, you are sending the message that you are completely fine with keeping it casual, so he’ll have no reason to move things forward.

Option B – Give him an ultimatum – is a popular response because, as modern, empowered women, you believe you should communicate what you want and not settle for anything less.

Here’s why C is the best choice:

It allows for a degree of flexibility. You’re not saying you’ll never see him again, you’re allowing yourself to have fun with him – while making it very clear that you’re out there meeting other people at the same time. That way he’ll still enjoy being with you but he’ll also feel a healthy bit of pressure to get his act together before some other guy snaps you up.

The key is to see him only on YOUR terms.

Pack your social calendar with nights out with girlfriends and dates with new and interesting guys. That leaves a very limited amount of time to spend with Mr. Non-Commital. You are not at his beck and call. But when you do see him, be your usual fun, happy self.

Here’s what will start to happen: He’ll start to think “I really miss her. I want to see her more. Maybe I do want something more serious after all.”

That’s right – he’ll think that commitment was all HIS idea and he’ll be the one asking you to be exclusive.

30/03/2014

"We cannot rely on our native tongue if our spouse does not understand it. If we want him/her to feel the love we are trying to communicate, we must express it in his or her primary love language." Dr. Gary D. Chapman

5 Love Languages:
1. Words of Affirmation
2. Quality Time
3. Receiving Gifts
4. Acts of Service
5. Physical Touch

http://www.focusonthefamily.com/marriage/communication_and_conflict/learn-to-speak-your-spouses-love-language/understanding-the-five-love-languages.aspx

23/03/2014

Thanks for telling me you met your mr right from us!