26/05/2018
We’ve moved in........ it feels very good. The girls are happy and so are the grown ups - that is what counts. Still a load of work to sort out but standing outside last night, after a full -on week in London, we saw bats, herons and barn owls doing their thing which was humbling. The whole point of this three year escapade is to get settled and to get back to some form of routine ( that will never apply to me so long as I stay in the mad world of tv ) but it seems to be working for the rest of the Wright clan. Tess is pictured in front of the two piles of builder’s off cuts of timber that were happily ignited a few weeks back. All I can say is that if you want to go down this route of self build ‘nirvana’ be very prepared for the long haul - getting the right builder is paramount and thankfully we did find them. It was a bonus having a wonderful wife who has had many years of experience working with builders, planning authorities and other suppliers which helped the process move along as best it could but there is nothing you can do about the crass financing system in this country for self builders who are self employed - you are treated as 2nd class citizens. It has taken us 9 months, and still counting, to get a very small mortgage in place to finally finish off the build which has been the most frustrating aspect of this venture, so if you want to do what we have embarked on be very aware of the many hoops you will have to jump through, not just once but again and again - and then again once more. This has not been your normal build - having to satisfy my mother’s requirements has added another dimension, that we have been very happy to address, but we have basically built two houses for about 400k ( excluding the plot cost ). If you feel confident, design it yourself but if not, get an architect in from the beginning and get them to address what your requirements are based around your budget and lifestyle. This is the best foundation to start from and don’t deviate from it - a good architect will connect with what you want in your proposed project and not lead you down a more expensive proposal for their own vanity. So, we’re not finished yet and we won’t be for a while but looking at what we have achieved so far, the future looks good and very interesting but boy, it has been a long haul to get to this point in all our lives..... but I’m not complaining......too much!