08/04/2024
Yeeeessssss! I love this! Don't be afraid from the mistakes we make in relationships, lean into the opportunity they provide for growth!
Winnicot coined the idea of "good enough" parenting, but perfectionism is the enemy of all relationships - including the one that we have with ourselves.
Teaching your kids (and your partner, and yourself) terms like "rupture" and "repair" and acting on them, adds visibility to conflict and hurt and allows for healing and growth to happen.
https://www.abc.net.au/news/2024-04-08/understanding-rupture-and-repair-as-a-parent/103580930?
Ruptures like a raised voice or moment of disconnect can become a "teachable moment" if we focus on the vital repair work that should come afterwards, experts say.