04/18/2020
This all just hit home. I am a Move Coordinator. Residential Moves will still have to happen. And life will never be the same after COVID19. I just got it since I only finished my last job last Friday. Having a week off to rest and recuperate is typical of the rhythm of my business. But now its home. I have 4 tribes. The 4th are the regulars at Bar Cesar, and frankly I spend more of my free time with them then my other beloveds. Don died this morning. I fully expected to see him at the Bar soon. He was a curmudgeon with a great burst of a laugh, he liked me so I felt blessed. He taught me about Woodbridge Reserve, frankly a lesson I didn’t need, but its like butterscotch. He didn’t die of COVID but several months later after a really bad fall in his home. This morning I told a client of 13 years, No, No. It’s a life care community but I didn’t feel good about moving a new resident from a different community into the building. Moving 1 person from a building of 100 plus staff that go in and out daily to another community of 250 with an even larger daily staff. And my client found out 24 hours ago that they have 2 COVID cases. How do I know what will happen in that other building between now and the move? I said No. And got push back. It’s empowering to draw that line in the sand, finally. I am against the Wall, and I am a No. My team are a No. I told the new resident quietly that I have huge compassion for her predicament and that she can call and lament to me during this weekend, and any time. I look forward to moving her in when its safe, unless she finds a move coordinator and a moving company that will do it anyway... It’s home this new normal, life will be different, and I want to design that difference FOR me personally and professionally. I don’t want it forced on me. That will be my focus in the next few weeks. Meanwhile 6 moves are delayed until when? A colleague Martin Codina owner of Fine Estate Sales (they have an online auction this Sunday, their new normal) and I had a great talk today, Agility, Agility, Agility, he emphasized. That is who I need to be in this new normal. How that looks can actually be fun to examine and develop. Meanwhile RIP Don, I miss you already.