Upstate Indie Weddings

Upstate Indie Weddings Redefining wedding traditions and transforming your wedding planning experience is our mission.
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We connect modern day couples to the most unique creative, and local wedding pros through our online directory, blog, social media feeds, events and more! Upstate Indie Weddings features the most creative vendors, inventive wedding events, inspiring blog and newsletter all highlighting the area's best local wedding options! So if you're newly engaged or helping to plan the BIG day, be sure to expl

ore our site to find info on our upcoming wedding shows, submit your real love stories, and view the directory of our incredible wedding artisans, all local and all truly unique!

You know when you have a vision in your head and you are trying to explain it to someone and you are not totally sure it...
05/30/2026

You know when you have a vision in your head and you are trying to explain it to someone and you are not totally sure it is going to translate — and then it does. Completely. Exactly. Even better than you imagined it.

That is the Melissa, owner of and honestly we are not surprised one bit.

Balloon decor has come so far and if you are still picturing the sad helium balloons from a birthday party in 1997 — Melissa is about to completely change your mind. We are talking stunning organic installations, dreamy backdrops that make every single photo look like it was professionally styled, and thoughtful designs that actually reflect the vibe and personality of your event.

Bridal shower. Bachelorette. Engagement party. Wedding reception. You name it — if there is a special moment happening and you want the space to feel intentional and beautiful and completely Insta worthy — Fete is the call to make.

If you have an event coming up and you want a backdrop that stops people mid conversation just to take a picture — we highly recommend finding Fete in The Upstate Indie Weddings Directory at upstateindieweddings.com and booking a call — link in bio.

Can we talk about this review for a second because it gave us all the feels.This is exactly what your wedding morning sh...
05/27/2026

Can we talk about this review for a second because it gave us all the feels.

This is exactly what your wedding morning should feel like. Not the chaos. Not the timeline stress. Not the "does my hair look okay?!!?" spiral that nobody wants to be in at 9am on their wedding day. Just pure, settled, ok-I am ready for this energy — and Elizabeth, owner of is the reason this bride had exactly that.

Here is the thing about finding the right hair stylist for your wedding day. It is not just about the updo. It is about who you want in that room with you when the nerves are real and the emotions are already running high before you have even put your dress on. You need someone who is genuinely good at their job AND makes you feel like everything is going to be absolutely fine.

That is Lizzy and her team. Every single time.

Because when you can sit in that chair and actually trust the person behind you — something shifts. You stop white knuckling the morning and you start actually enjoying it. You feel like yourself. You feel beautiful. You feel ready.

And that feeling? It follows you straight down the aisle.

Seriously if you do not have your wedding hair artist locked in yet — go check out Salon Elizabeth. Your future self on wedding morning will thank you.

Find her in The Upstate Indie Weddings Directory at upstateindieweddings.com — link in bio.

When a musician tells you the music at their own wedding was perfect — you pay attention. Because that is not a complime...
05/25/2026

When a musician tells you the music at their own wedding was perfect — you pay attention. Because that is not a compliment that comes easy from someone who lives and breathes sound.

That is exactly what DJ Tori Vee of Washburn Entertainment delivered for this couple. Six to eight hours of Zoom calls before the wedding day. Not to run through a checklist — but to actually get to know them. Their story. Their taste. The feeling they wanted in that room when the night hit its stride.

That kind of dedication is not standard. That is someone who genuinely cares whether your reception feels like you or just feels like every other wedding they have worked.

The dance floor is easy to fill when you play the hits. It is a completely different skill to read a room, honor a couple's vision, and create an experience that the people in attendance will talk about for years.

does the second one.

If music matters to you — and it should, because it sets the tone for every single moment of your reception — belongs on your vendor list.

Tap the link in bio to find them in The Upstate Indie Weddings Directory.

The right DJ does not just play music. They create the feeling.

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New York Bridal Fashion Week just gave us a lot to talk about and if you are currently dress shopping or about to be, yo...
05/14/2026

New York Bridal Fashion Week just gave us a lot to talk about and if you are currently dress shopping or about to be, you are going to want to pay attention.
Vogue — the authority on all things fashion…the inspo for The Devil Wears Prada… and the only source that really matters when the conversation turns to what is walking runways — covered the biggest bridal trends coming out of New York and three of them are worth bookmarking right now.

✨Lace is back in a serious way. Not the stiff, heavy lace of decades past — we are talking delicate, modern, intentional lace that feels romantic without feeling dated. It is showing up everywhere and it is stunning.

✨Asymmetrical lines are having a major moment. One shoulder. Angled hems. Unexpected cutouts. The brides on these runways are not playing it safe and the result is some of the most interesting silhouettes we have seen in years. If you have been drawn to something a little unconventional, the runways just validated you completely.

✨High necklines are everywhere. Elegant, architectural, and incredibly photogenic — the high neck bridal look is sophisticated in a way that feels both timeless and completely fresh right now.

If any of these are speaking to you, save this and bring it to your next bridal appointment. Your stylist will thank you for coming in with a direction.

The dress of your dreams is out there. Now you know exactly what to look for.

Not sure which bridal salons to book appointments at? Below are some of our favs 👇🏻







05/13/2026

That moment did not happen because the couple got lucky with their song list.

It happened because they hired someone who understood that a great reception is not a playlist — it is a performance. It is someone standing behind that booth who has spent years learning how to read a room full of strangers and figure out exactly what they need before they even know they need it.

And here is the thing nobody tells you when you start researching DJs — the price difference between a good one and a great one is almost never significant enough to justify settling. But the experience difference between the two is something every single one of your guests will feel by the end of the night.

So how do you find the great one? You ask better questions.

Not just “what is your rate” and “are you available.” The questions that actually reveal whether someone is going to show up and go through the motions or show up and make magic happen.

We put together a free DJ Interview Guide so you know exactly what to ask before you book — because this is one vendor decision you do not want to figure out after the fact.

Want our DJ Interview Guide? Comment DANCEFLOOR and we will send you a copy!

Not sure where to start? Below are two of our favs 👇🏻




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