22/05/2026
Time to DEMAND that MEN do better 🚩
Recently, the entire nation was shocked to learn that a guardian of this beautiful baby was responsible for his death.
The comments rolled in by the thousands as the country stood still in disbelief.
And while everyone shared their opinions, a particular narrative began to surface , one also echoed recently by our Minister of Security:
“Women need to choose their men wisely.”
First of all let us say that we actually like this Minister 🙂
We think he is a good example of a responsible man. We also want to make a note to say that we do agree that choosing partners wisely is important.
But this post is about something else.
Something that NEEDS to be highlighted if we expect to see real change.
Have you noticed how everytime a horrific crime is committed by a man, somehow the blame still circles back to a woman.
A man murders a child:
Yet people ask:
“What kind of woman chose him?”
A woman gets abused:
“What did she do to provoke him?”
A female gets assaulted:
“What was she wearing?”
A man abandons his children…
“She should’ve picked better.”
Meanwhile, despite men being the overwhelming perpetrators of violent crimes globally....murder, r**e, gang violence, domestic abuse, there is still very little DIRECT public pressure on men as a group to do better.
That is a serious problem.
Because a society cannot improve if it constantly redirects accountability away from the people committing the harm.
It is time we start having honest conversations about masculinity, emotional dysfunction, irresponsibility and the culture among SOME men that protects harmful behavior instead of confronting it.
And the truth is, speaking on these issues often comes with backlash, because apparently we operate within a patriarchal society as they call it, where the agenda is to protect men by shoving issues with masculinity under the rug.
So when a good man tries to hold other men accountable, he gets labeled a “simp.” Or when a woman bravely speaks up to bring awareness about male issues, she is often perceived to be a “man-hater.”
So the silence continues.
The excuses continue.
And society continues to decay.
If we truly want safer homes, safer women, safer children, and safer communities, then accountability cannot only fall on women.
Men are overwhelmingly the ones involved in gangs, violent crimes, armed robberies, sexual violence, and family abandonment.
Therefore it is time we address MEN.
Men must also be challenged to raise their standards, control their violence, heal emotionally, take responsibility for their children, and hold each other accountable.
And this effort also has to begin with men.